The 8 commandments of sex

Like women, men don't just get their thrills from one place: they have several erogenous zones (areas of the body which produce sexual arousal when stimulated). And they often lament the fact that we don't pay enough attention to them! So get to know them and you'll be able to explore them using all the diffferent techniques: kissing, caressing, nibbling, sucking, licking, ticking and the rest.

Everything (or almost everything!) except his genitals…
The lips, neck and, for some, the ears can detonate real thrills. And don't forget the interior of his thighs, where his skin is very delicate, his nipples if he likes them being touched, and, of course, his bum. You love looking at at, so why not pay it more attention in bed? Touch, massage and tickle his bum with a feather. You'll tell from his reaction he's enjoying it!

Intimate areas
We all know penises contain tiny, ultra-sensitive nerves, but do you really know the nature of the beast?

The penis is composed of the base (the bit which is attached to the rest of his body!), which should be firmly gripped; the shaft, which we tend to focus on and which they like to be touched in all sorts of ways; and the rim (the little rim of skin beween the shaft and the glans), which is supersensitive. Not forgetting the glans, the head, which is covered by the foreskin or exposed if he's circumcised. The head is very receptive to oral and manual stimulation, a bit like the clitoris. Treat it with due care and attention...

Some men like their testicles fondling or taking into the mouth, but others don't appreciate you going near their scrotum! The anus may be a bit taboo for some, others experience intense pleasure there from stimulation, kissing and... see Commandment 7! Don't go there if he doesn't seem happy about it though, because it could give him a mental block.

The membrane of the perineum (located between the anus and the genitals) is very fine and very sensitive. If you fondle or caress this area, applying light pressure or moving in circles with the tips of your fingers) while you're masturbating him or giving him oral sex, satisfaction will be guaranteed! It's not an area we think about stimulating, but it can produce explosive orgasms.

Our advice: Imagine you're Brigitte Bardot in Contempt: every time you get to one of his erogenous zones, ask him if he likes it. His little moans of contentment will tell you if you've hit the spot!